Of Course It’s Not

It’s not a bad thing, at all. Honestly, I don’t think there’s someone who can separate their head from their heart when they head over heels in love with their special one. Though, I’m not sure if everyone gets the honor to completely infatuated with someone. So I think we should be thankful for what we feel.

But you know, wo de xiao meimei, I’m still wondering why you share those beautiful words. I mean, has somebody treat you wrong? Since early this morning, I’ve been having a hard time trying to figure out what is it that you have in mind and how you actually feel. I really wanted to ask what’s going, but I suppose you would only say that it’s all in the past and things have been taken care of. Well.. I can’t talk to your if you don’t wanna hear it.

But, I’d like to say something, so please listen to me. Whatever you may feel at the moment, don’t keep it to yourself. Whoever it may be that troubling your mind, you got to let him know about it. If it’s really that precious to you, you got to find out the truth. Unless it can be proved, it’s only assumption. Don’t make assumption. Assumption is one of the worst things our mind could ever create. It’s going to kill you from the inside.

Just because the text become scarcer, just because he doesn’t drop you a “hello” as often, do not presume that he no longer care or he never really intending to be there for you. Maybe he just forgets. Maybe he’s been caught up in the hustle-bustle of the busy world. Maybe he’s trying so hard to prepare the life for you in the future. So remind him, that you also need him to be there for you, at the moment.

So once again, don’t make assumption. Cause though we all have those things called mind and heart, it might work differently for all of us. You wouldn’t’ really figure out what’s in somebody’s mind or heart by looking at yours. If it were me, I’d rather have those word spoken to me, so I can explain. Cause if it’s not, how would I ever explain something you never wanna hear?

So I hope you get the idea. Before even thinking of leaving, give the other person a chance to explaining. Cause most of the times, things are not what it seems to be. There’s something I want you to remember. If¬†someone treats you wrong, don’t feel helpless. You’re too amazing to feel helpless. But don’t judge the other person in the first place too. Try to talk it out. Clear the misunderstanding, if any.¬†Find a win – win solution for both parties.

However.. If after you did it all nothing seems to work, possibly, the other person can’t appreciate you for who you are. My suggestion is, don’t waste your time with someone who expects you to be less than yourself. Don’t waste your time for someone who makes you feel bad about you being you. You deserve much better than that. But before you make the decision, ensure you did all you have to do. So there’ll be no regret later on.

Btw, I’m not on his side! I just don’t like it if you feel bad.

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